Natalie Cole in Relationships
Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Natalie Cole is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Natalie Cole is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.
She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Natalie Cole a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Natalie's past are especially dear to her.
Natalie Cole may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.
Natalie Cole feels that she must always be doing something, and she becomes impatient and irritable if she has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of her own tendency to fight for what she wants, rather than compromise. Natalie may not realize how competitive she is.
Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Natalie Cole also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.
She is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. She enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and she sometimes overdoes her generosity. Natalie Cole often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
Although Natalie Cole was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Natalie's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
She is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Natalie Cole often retreats into her own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, she will not fight or assert herself, even when she needs to. Natalie Cole is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
Natalie Cole has a somewhat excitable disposition and her moods and thoughts change rapidly. Enterprising, original and intuitive, Natalie Cole has an instinctive correct grasp of a subject. She is intellectual, resents interference and it is hard to deceive her.
She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Natalie Cole values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Natalie desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Cole, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Natalie Cole appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
When she cares about someone, Natalie Cole likes to show her affection with small favors or tangible gestures.
Natalie Cole also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Natalie is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.
Natalie Cole is warmly romantic and she openly expresses her appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. She enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Cole is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because she knows what she wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses her desires honestly.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Conjunct Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Moon Opposition Mercury/Uranus
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 6th house
Venus Trine Mars
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